Well, I guess the fox news comment was a bit low and was sarcastic (but barbed?). Sorry! And yet I am not sure what else you took as sarcasm in my post. I was not trying to be ironic in any other section.John wrote:Your barbed sarcasm reveals that you are more aligned with this family's general character than you might care to be. And your use of it is ironic given the content of your post.
I think I do disagree here about the chastening thing, but I respect your right to do what you feel is right. I do agree that disagreement alone is not bullying. And I never claimed that you personally were bullying anyone (and I don't believe you have bullied people in this forum). However, when one throws religious quote after quote at you to try to convince you that your opinion makes you unrighteous, evil, damned, a prophet hater--that is bullying. When Ian repeatedly insinuates that Betsy is stupid, that all she does is a google search to write her paper--that is bullying. When people write posts about how they should be able to say whatever they want, and if you get hurt, that is your fault--that is bullying.John wrote: 1. I have not been "teaming up against Betsy". I have tried to be respectful in my disagreement with her opinion on this issue, but if you can see where I have belittled or "bullied" her, feel free to throw such words in my face. I do not believe that vigorous disagreement constitutes bullying. I do believe that verbal personal attacks do. (see quote above) I will rely on you to make me aware of specific occasions when I have wrongly resorted to such tactics. I will beg your pardon. However, I do believe that chastening is not bullying if it is offered in an appropriate spirit. But chastening is hard for the chastened. And chastening is a parents duty, is it not?
I have not at all expressed disdain for all politically conservative viewpoints. I occasionally even hold a politically conservative view myself. What I have disdain for is ignorance (on all sides of the political spectrum, actually). I disdain ignoring reality because it doesn't fit an agenda. I disdain the fact that the political right is in the pocket of the NRA and will do everything in their power to prevent even the studying of gun violence.John wrote:2. Your tone of disdain seems to make it clear that in your opinion, being of a conservative mind set is not just a different one from your own, but a very low one. Is this not exactly the kind of rhetoric against which you are lashing out? And has my tone ever been such?
Great, I will leave out my interpretation of what is happening. Again, I am extremely interested in knowing what exactly in this thread changed your mind. What argument did it for you?John wrote:3. Your assumption that this thread is not what changed my opinion is mistaken. And your assumption that I am lying about having had my opinion changed is false at best and perhaps even arrogant. Is such a thing a possibility?
Why do you think I hold a very low opinion of your intellect?John wrote: 4. Please feel free to hold a very low opinion of my intellect. You are not alone in the world. I frequently am reminded of it in many ways and by many people whom I admire.
In summary, John, I do not at all feel like you are the problem with this forum. I know I have disagreed with you in several threads, but I have always found you respectful, interesting and ultimately a calming presence. You do not resort to bullying or personal attacks, and I thank you for that.